Synastry doesn't compare two sun signs: it overlays your two entire natal charts. What draws you together, what blocks you, what each of you awakens in the other — and the pattern you replay together without seeing it.
Not a compatibility score out of ten. A reading that connects the dots across your two charts, written for the two of you.
Why can't I get them out of my head?
Why is this bond so intense when it's so complicated?
We're drawn to each other — what's actually going on?
Is it love, attachment, or a pattern repeating itself?
What does this person awaken in me?
What did my ex and I really live through?
Why this desire, this familiarity, this feeling of recognizing each other. The contacts that make a bond visceral — and that explain why people stay, even when reason advises otherwise.
Differences in rhythm, in need for safety, in ways of loving. These aren't flaws: they're two poles reaching for each other. Named, they stop being accusations.
The patterns that come back from one relationship to the next. What this particular person brings up for you to explore — old, but activated now, and by them rather than by anyone else.
Where the bond naturally goes, what carries it, what drains it. Not a prediction: a reading of what you can actually work with, and what each of you has to learn for it to hold.
The substance doesn't change: the same two charts, the same calculations, the same method — and the same price, because it's the same work. What changes is the axis of the reading, and it comes down to three questions.
The reference version. The longest chapter is the one about friction: that is where the things you can actually work on live.
The intimate register is only written if you have both agreed to it.The useful question isn't “who was he”, it's: what did this bond wake up in your chart, and where is it playing out again. The last chapter is no longer “what can last” but “what remains”.
Never the intimate register, and no forecast of reconciliation — in either direction. We won't sell you hope.The bond is asymmetric: the document speaks to the parent, never to the child. It gains a chapter the others don't have — the ages ahead: what will surface at seven, at twelve, in adolescence.
The chapter on tension becomes one about rivalry and the family script — what was handed out before either of you had a say. And the closing question isn't “will it last”: it lasts. It is at what distance.
Daily life is what carries the weight: a friendship dies of rhythm, not of conflict. What makes you think of each other, and what makes the gaps grow.
“How to work together”: in writing or out loud, the format of your exchanges, the rhythm — and what this pair can do, and what it will not be able to do.
Nothing written here can be used in a hiring or performance decision: we describe a pair, not a candidate.You choose the bond when you order, and the questions follow — if there is a hierarchy, we ask; if it is “other”, you say so in a sentence. Seven types, one price: it is the same work.
People think of the couple, and stop there. The method works for any lasting bond — you just say which one when you order.
Technically, a synastry means laying one person's sky over the other's and reading what the overlay reveals. Five layers of reading, in this order.
Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars: the five functions that make the daily life of a relationship. Their Moon on your Sun doesn't tell the same story as their Mars on your Moon — the first soothes, the second electrifies.
Conjunctions, trines, sextiles, squares, oppositions: this is the texture of the bond. Flowing aspects give the sense of obviousness, hard aspects give the charge. A purely flowing bond doesn't hold; a purely tense one burns you out.
Which area of your life their planets land in: home, work, intimacy, thought. This is what explains why one person gets to you in one specific area and leaves you indifferent on another.
Ascendant, Midheaven, nodes: what the bond comes to work on in each of you. This is where that sense of having been expected is read — the one that makes people say they already knew each other.
What structures, what lasts, what weighs. Saturn builds or locks up depending on how it's used; Neptune idealizes; Pluto transforms. This layer decides the length of the story more than the attraction of day one.
An excerpt of a synthesis, written for two real people whose names have been changed.
Your relationship blends safety and intensity. One offers a sense of refuge, the other awakens a need for depth. The bond can be very gentle — and become heavy if each expects the other to repair an old insecurity.
An immediate emotional recognition: you may feel you've known each other for a long time. Camille brings the grounding Marc looks for without naming it. Marc opens an inner life Camille doesn't always let herself have.
Your rhythms aren't the same. One moves through structure and slowness, the other through emotional waves. Without explicit language, one experiences the other as distant, the other as suffocating — and neither is wrong.
The bond holds if you turn the intensity into clear words, not silent tests. If each learns to receive the other's way of loving without translating it into their own, the relationship becomes a real shelter.
A custom PDF document delivered by email, built from both people's exact birth dates, times, and places.
The best synastries are read together. If the person is there, ask them for their birth time — and read it side by side.
I work on the basis that you have their agreement, and I ask you for it when you order. That declaration is what binds you — not me. Like an astrologer in a consultation, I work with the information I'm given. As for them, I collect nothing else: their birth details are erased as soon as the reading is delivered.
Two charts, read together: what each awakens in the other, what attracts, where you rub each other wrong, what can last. Couple, ex, parent and child, siblings, friendship, work.
Its chapter on "Their relationship with you" already reads part of the bond between your child and you.
You need both people's birth times for a complete reading — and it's the time that matters, far more than the precision of the place: one minute of difference already changes the Ascendant, while the town is enough for the place.
If one of the two times is missing, the reading is still possible: the aspects between your planets stay accurate, but some chapters will drop out (those that rest on the houses and the Ascendants). I tell you before writing, never after.
No. It doesn't predict, it describes: what attracts, where you rub each other wrong, what repeats, what holds the bond together. You come away with something to work with, not a verdict. Two very different charts can last decades; two very harmonious charts can die of boredom.
Yes, and it's one of the most common cases. Understanding why a bond was so intense, so unstable or so hard to let go of is exactly what synastry brings into focus. That said: the best synastries are read together — when the person is there, the best thing is to ask for their birth time and read it side by side.
Synastry reads any lasting bond: parent and child, siblings, a long friendship, a business partner. The framework is the same — what changes is which areas of the chart I look at first.
No. Everything is written in plain English, and every term is explained at the moment it matters. No prior knowledge is needed.
$39, in the currency shown for your country. The roughly 40-page PDF arrives in your inbox within 72 hours, in the language of your choice.
My synastry articles are free to read, and they go deep: Venus-Mars aspects, what compatibility really means, why some bonds never quite let go. They're further down this page, and in the articles.
Yes, and I say so proudly: it's what makes this depth possible at this price. The AI I use, trained on the humanistic method, holds together hundreds of connections across the two charts, no human memory holds at once. Every reading is reviewed before it's sent.
Couple, ex, parent and child, siblings, friendship, work — $39 USD, delivered in 72 hours.